Holistic and Experiential Learning about Happiness

Holistic sexology, Tantric massage and Shiatsu for men, women and couples. Individual sessions, workshops and events in Oslo.

10+ years of practice  ·  thousands of clients  ·  1500 h Zen Shiatsu (TCM) training  ·  Oslo, Norway

Who I work with

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For men

Overcome sexual anxiety and become a confident lover · last as long as you want

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For women

Increase sensitivity in the whole body · unlock every possible kind of orgasm

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For couples

Feel more connected and present while lovemaking · master the art of tantric sex and tantric massage

Eva Shafik

Hi, I'm Eva Shafik!

I am a holistic sexologist, bodyworker, intimacy coach, conscious BDSM practitioner, Shiatsu and Tantric massage therapist. I apply holistic, experiential and practical methods for helping people to cope with sexual dysfunctions and also teach them how to generate extended states of pleasure.

I work with many men, women, couples and non-binary people, who look for answers to deep satisfaction in their intimacy. Thanks to my individual sessions thousands of my clients have experienced natural health improvement and overcome the obstacles that were holding them back from enjoying fulfilled sex life.

While being a hardcore science nerd, I often bring my knowledge of Eastern practices, from Tantra to Traditional Chinese Medicine into my work. Through years of study, I have built and created my complex approach, based on the conscious work with the body, mind and energy system. These methods brought my sexuality and whole life to a new level, and I am glad that I can share this knowledge with other people who want to unfold their potential.

What clients say

"I never thought it was possible to sense so much pleasure in my body without intense stimulations I got used to. After the series of sessions, I could feel something like a trance state by receiving only a gentle touch. That was a totally new experience for me."

— Espen

How it works

1 Choose a time

Pick the session length and a time that suits you, and pay securely online. You get a confirmation by email straight away.

2 We talk first

Your first session is about talking and getting to know each other — where you are now and what you wish for.

3 At your own pace

Together we find the direction. Nothing happens without your "yes", and you set the boundaries.

Your True Nature Is Blissful

Many people believe it is of the utmost importance to find the right partner to feel satisfied in their sex lives. But what if I tell you that the greatest source of pleasure lies within ourselves? We have not been trained for sexual bliss, but we can start right now, from where we are. Through my methods, it is possible to transform the nervous system and get the necessary skills to become a truly empowered lover, who feels confidence, pleasure and connection in lovemaking.

Elements of Holistic Sexology

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Coaching and Mind Work

Before starting the practical part, I often invite my clients to explore their belief system, thoughts and emotions associated with their sexuality. Social conditioning, upbringing or negative memories can create painful feelings around different aspects of our intimate life. Very often we experience this state as the feeling of "being stuck" in our head that does not allow us to move on. To liberate our mind from inner obstacles I suggest my special methods on mind work that significantly improve emotional state and give you freedom what to think and how to feel about anything in your life.

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Somatic Practices

By listening to the body and allowing its wisdom to express and be seen, we become more connected to ourselves and therefore also to others. Using somatic techniques enables us to know the truth of our experience. In my sessions, I can show you how you can use sound, breathing, movement, touch to increase sensitivity and understand what your body communicates to you. By becoming aware of physical sensations and any associated emotional responses we can begin to integrate body and mind into a more cohesive whole which creates a stronger sense of selfhood.

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Harmonizing the Energy System

Sex is first of all a matter of energy. The more energy we have, the more ecstatic we can be. In order to resolve the blockages in the body, I use techniques of Shiatsu, that is based on the Chinese medicine. It improves the overall health by affecting the internal energy system. Pressure applied to points on the body promotes energy flow and corrects disharmonies throughout the patient's body. In addition to being a deeply relaxing experience, Shiatsu helps relieve stress, treat pain and illness, and contributes to a patient's overall health and wellbeing.

Upcoming workshops & events

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  • Lenka · 5 Oct – 22 Oct

    My friend Lenka will be in Oslo, you can contact her at +420777777777

  • klara · 14 Oct – 17 Nov

    The experience of powerlessness and the loss of agency over their own body plays a major role in the suffering that follows sexual abuse and trauma. Many therapeutic approaches recognize that reclaiming power is very important and offer specific interventions designed to empower. By definition, sexual abuse is an interaction that is not based on consent. And consent is a complex, layered concept that can refer to "inner" consent, spoken consent and assumed consent. We may show our consent non-verbally or we may speak our "yes" AND "no". Some of us may assume a "yes" as long as there is not a "no" and often a previous "yes" serves as orientation in later interactions. Overall there is a huge lack in clarity in most of our sexual interactions around feeling and expressing what we enjoy, like and consent to and what may not be comfortable or unwanted.

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    The experience of powerlessness and the loss of agency over their own body plays a major role in the suffering that follows sexual abuse and trauma. Many therapeutic approaches recognize that reclaiming power is very important and offer specific interventions designed to empower. By definition, sexual abuse is an interaction that is not based on consent. And consent is a complex, layered concept that can refer to "inner" consent, spoken consent and assumed consent. We may show our consent non-verbally or we may speak our "yes" AND "no". Some of us may assume a "yes" as long as there is not a "no" and often a previous "yes" serves as orientation in later interactions. Overall there is a huge lack in clarity in most of our sexual interactions around feeling and expressing what we enjoy, like and consent to and what may not be comfortable or unwanted.

Questions people ask before booking

What happens in the first session?

The first session is only about talking and getting to know each other. I collect information first, understand where you are on your way, and only after that we find together the direction of our collaboration.

Do I have to undress or be touched?

No. You choose whether you want to undress, receive touch, how to receive it and where. Boundaries are discussed before every step, and nothing happens without your solid "yes". You can stretch boundaries or set new ones during the session.

Is there sexual intercourse, or do I touch you?

No. I do not receive touch from clients and cannot be engaged in sexual intercourse. The sessions have a therapeutic and educational purpose only.

Who are the sessions for?

Men, women, couples and non-binary people — whether you want to heal a difficulty such as performance anxiety, numbness or trauma, or simply learn to feel more pleasure and connection.

Can I come with my partner?

Yes. Sessions and the Master Lover and Art of Intimate Touch programs are open to couples. If you want to learn intimate touch without a partner, you can practise with our assistant (4000 NOK extra for the programme, or 800 NOK per hour).

How much does it cost?

Individual sessions are from 2000 NOK for 60 minutes up to 4000 NOK for 180 minutes. Programmes of 3–4 sessions are paid in advance at a discounted package price from 7500 NOK.

Where are the sessions?

In Oslo, Norway.

From the blog

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Ready to begin?

Book your first session online in a couple of minutes — it starts with a conversation.